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NASCAR CEO divorce info released

The contentious divorce between NASCAR CEO Brian France and his ex-wife alleged a variety of indiscretions; he said she spent a massive amount of his fortune, she claimed that he was verbally abusive and neglected the kids. The details of this split have long remained under wraps, but a large number of court documents related to the divorce have just been unsealed, giving the general public an intimate look into a high-stakes breakup.

The couple was actually married twice, once from 2001 to 2004, and then from 2005 to 2008. Media outlets had fought for open access to the couple's divorce documents under fair access laws in the state of North Carolina. The documents were just recently unsealed thanks to a state appeals court ruling. Now, a whopping 3,000 pages of divorce information has been released, including court motions, emails and other communication.

Nash rails against increased support payments

Media reports have accused basketball superstar Steve Nash of refusing to pay child support because he believes his ex-wife will spoil their children if they get too much money. Further, the Los Angeles Lakers player thinks his wife is already getting enough money to support the couple's three children.

It appears that the courts also agree with Nash; an Arizona judge ruled in his favor with regards to the child support requests. Nash's ex, Alejandra Amarilla, is reportedly appealing the ruling, however, arguing that she needs more money. Nash argues that his ex made millions off of the divorce settlement, so she should already be able to pay for some of their children's needs.

Tricks to being a successful single parent

Being a single parent can be incredibly demanding. Many parents feel intimidated by the possibility of having to care for a child entirely by themselves. If your child custody agreement has left you feeling overwhelmed and feeling like you have to play “superman,” consider these helpful insights into the real world of single parenting.

First, single parents should be sure to set boundaries with their children. Your divorce may have left you feeling guilty about the emotional impact experienced by your kids, but that does not mean you should give in to their every whim. Learn to be comfortable saying “no” without softening the blow with an “okay?” at the end of your sentence. You need to learn to be loving but firm when your children make requests you cannot accommodate.

Escape the approval trap after your split

For many North Carolina residents, a pattern of "approval seeking" may have arisen during their marriages. This behavior can be particularly difficult to handle during a divorce, especially if you have given too much of yourself to the relationship you were trying to save. Experts in the field warn against getting caught in the "approval trap," which occurs when individuals seek confirmation from others at the expense of their own welfare.

Some people become "people pleasers" because of unresolved issues with their parents. Those suffering from this condition fail to set boundaries with others, instead communicating that they are not good enough to warrant respectful treatment. Women may be more prone to adopting the people-pleasing behavior, largely because they are socialized to be more obedient, caring and respectful. Although those are generally positive traits, subordinating yourself to others' whims can be detrimental to your psychological health.

Woman's international custody ordeal finally ends

Military families and parents often struggle with equitable child custody. This can be even more difficult for North Carolina couples that include one member with foreign or joint citizenship. One Midwestern woman's ordeal confirms the extraordinarily complicated processes that can be required to retrieve a child that has been taken to a foreign country by a disgruntled parent.

The woman's two--year custody battle with her husband began in 2009, when he took the girl to Iran to visit his relatives. The couple had decided that they were not suitable marriage partners, so they had informally separated, but they retained their marriage documents for the benefit of the child. The man had been permitted frequent visits with his daughter, but he apparently wanted to play a larger role in the girl's life.

N.C. Lawmakers Build Barriers for Divorce

Lawmakers in North Carolina have proposed a bill that would dramatically increase the strictness of the state's divorce laws. Provisions in the measure would double the length of the current one-year waiting period for divorce, a move that legislators say would help cut the state's divorce rate. North Carolina has a higher divorce rate than the country as a whole, with about 3.8 divorces per 1,000 marriages. After comparing that number to national statistics, North Carolina gets ranked in the 19th slot in the nation for divorce rates.

Legislators say current divorce laws encourage people to abandon their marriages too quickly. The new provisions would require a two-year waiting period before a divorce could be finalized. That number would be drastically higher than any other state in the Southeast; most require just a couple weeks between filing and a formal split. Alabama does not have a waiting period at all, for example.

Don't Let Divorce Ruin Your Credit

We all know that divorce can take an emotional and financial toll on couples, but were you aware that your credit score could actually suffer after a split? Experts say that your spouse could ruin your credit rating and scores through their own malicious intent, though innocent oversight can also be to blame. Most of these credit problems arise when couples are attempting to deal with their family home or vehicles. You can take a few simple steps to avoid the additional heartache that comes with a deflated credit score.

First, it is important to remember that your divorce decree does not supersede any contracts you made with your lenders during your marriage. That is, the creditors will not acknowledge court-ordered changes to the contract. It is thus your responsibility to make sure that your ex correctly transfers his or her share of the asset's equity. If you keep the home, you must refinance the loan under your own name. Similarly, if your spouse decides to keep the house, you need to make sure that your name is removed from all loan documents.

Avoid these financial mistakes during divorce

Individuals in North Carolina going through divorce often find themselves so emotionally overwhelmed that they have a difficult time dealing with their finances. The divorce may have been a surprise, or adultery could have been involved, so emotions run wild and money woes suddenly arise. Divorce attorneys say there are a few strategies for preventing financial problems from becoming major issues during your breakup.

The first rule of divorce: "Don't panic."

Experts: Divorcees Should Wait to Date

Online dating sounds like a safe and exciting prospect for many newly divorced individuals in North Carolina. Not so fast, though -- experts say that publicizing too much about your personal life while divorce or child custody hearings are ongoing could cause serious headaches. We have discussed the impact of social media profiles, such as those on Facebook, on divorce proceedings, but what about online dating profiles?

Attorneys are increasingly consulting profiles from eHarmony, Match.com and a variety of other dating sites during alimony, child support and other divorce-related hearings. Many people sign up for the dating sites before they have officially split, a move that could prove detrimental in the courtroom. Statistics show that more than half of matrimonial lawyers have seen relationship statuses from dating sites used as evidence in courtroom hearings. Online daters also tend to lie about their occupation, income and parenting status.

Jordan seeks to have paternity suit dismissed

Famed athlete Michael Jordan is finding himself embroiled in yet another paternity suit in which a woman is seeking to recover child support. The child in question is the 16-year-old son of a Georgia woman. The child's paternity was already established during previous court proceedings, according to attorneys, and the woman is wasting valuable taxpayer time and money by attempting to reopen the case.

Experts report that the child's paternity was already established during the woman's divorce case with her husband. It is not clear whether a formal DNA test was ever provided, but documents from the split show that the woman's ex-husband acknowledged that their marriage had produced the child. The woman's ex-husband is expected to pay child support, but the woman retained legal and physical custody of the child.

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